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United Church of Paducah
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Paducah, KY 42001
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From February 17, 2008
How Can This Be?
John 3: 1-17

On Tuesday night while Paducahans huddled in darkness wondering when their power would be restored, Ella Bailey was dancing around her living room. You see, Ella had just returned from Western Baptist where she had taken her first peek at Bailey Grace, her brand new niece.

As Ella, Crystal, and I sat by firelight talking about the awesome miracle of birth, Ella's eight-year-old mind stretched to comprehend the beautiful bondedness between mothers and their babies that begins in the womb.

"Mama," Ella said, her voice brimming with affection, "I wish I could climb back inside you, like before I was born."

Ella's comment was touching, of course. But it was also marvelously coincidental. Earlier that day I had been mulling over Nicodemus' darkness-draped conversation with Jesus and his clear sense of the impossibility of returning to the womb.

It's early in Jesus' ministry when the two men meet. Jesus has just come to Jerusalem and has already caught the attention of the Passover-pilgrim crowds. Not only has he overturned the tables of the moneychangers at the temple, Jesus has been doing and saying all sorts of things that suggest he is a man of God.

As I said, it's early in Jesus' ministry when the two meet. It's also late.

History has unfairly labeled Nicodemus as a sneak for coming out after dark like this to talk with Jesus. But this after-hours encounter might not have been fishy at all.

Night was the time when rabbis and holy men were known to do their best contemplating, their most vigorous pondering, their deepest theological thinking. Nicodemus may very well have decided to seek Jesus out when they were both at their learned best.

Thing is, as eager as he is, as experienced a Pharisee as he is, when the two get to talking Nick has one tough time grasping Jesus' meaning.

Sure Nicodemus recognizes that this Jesus is a man of God. But when Jesus tells Nicodemus that in order to see what Jesus sees, in order to understand what Jesus understands, a fella needs to experience birth again, Nicodemus misses the metaphor and instead clamps down on what he believes is a literal directive.

"How can anyone be born after having grown old," Nicodemus puzzles aloud. "Can one enter a second time into the mother's womb and be born?"

Jesus tries, bless him, to give Nicodemus a way out of the conceptual box he's trapped inside.

Jesus goes on to explain how beyond the visible is the invisible, that just as we're surrounded and affected by the wind but can't see it, so the Spirit is at work in and among us, doing what it will, when it will. To perceive God's reality, we have to use Spirit-given eyes, the eyes of our hearts, not just the ones in our heads.

But try as Jesus might, the Pharisee can only go so far. And so what began as a twilight dialogue ends in something that, for Nicodemus, sounds utterly incomprehensible. To Nicodemus' ears, Jesus ends up giving a nonsensical, over-the-top monologue about woo-woo stuff like God's kingdom, eternal life, and salvation.

I can identify some with Nicodemus. Last week I tried watching an interview with L. Ron Hubbard, the science fiction writer responsible for the ideas behind modern-day Scientology, believed by some to be a cult and thought by others to be a legitimate expression of spiritual truth.

I wasn't able to watch much of the interview because even though Hubbard spoke fluently, confidently, and in English, it was as if he was answering in some other language. One that, no matter how hard I tried, made very little sense to me.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that L. Ron is this generation's equivalent of Jesus. All I'm saying is that when it comes to the rarefied dimension of spiritual matters, all men (and women) are not created equal. What is plain to one can sound plain nutty to another.

So I can identify with Nicodemus. But I think I have some inkling of what it must have been like for Jesus. In a college class, I once made what I thought was a self-evident remark about something of a spiritual nature, a comment that sounded so foreign to one of my Christian peers that the only reasonable conclusion he could draw was that I was a pagan.

Before class the next week, I managed to catch him and tried my best to translate what I had said. It was not an easy task and it certainly was not quick. It took three hours (we missed class altogether) and any number of times our dialogue was so difficult we nearly called it quits.

When it comes to faith, we understand what we can, as we can. We understand what we can, as we can.

Very few of us start out with an aptitude for the mystical, a flair for navigating mystery.
Most of us begin our faith journey much like we began the journey to read or write fluently, or play golf or piano really well. With the exception of the occasional spiritual prodigy, we have to begin with the basics. We begin with the God of Genesis, who created the heavens and the earth. A God who created us in God's own image. A God who, our Christian Scriptures tell us, gave us Jesus so that we might learn how deeply loved we are. Now and always.

For some, those basics are more than enough to last a lifetime. Indeed, an eternity--one that could be ours, too, if we will but latch onto those same truths and in the same way.

Isn't that what motivates those guys who sit in the stands during pro football games waiting for opportune times to flash their huge "John 3: 16" signs for the benefit viewers all over the country? They want us to have what they have. And in the same way they have it.

Several times when I have met with families to plan funeral services, someone has asked that John 3:16 be read. And each time the same thing has happened. The one doing the requesting is filled with a soaring sense of peace while someone else at the meeting crumples up her face or grits his teeth.

How can this be? Isn't John 3:16 one of those basics we all learn? Isn't it foundational to the faith? It is, isn't it? I think it's fair to say that it is foundational. But what's not fair is to say that its meaning, its truth is found in one particular and rather exclusive understanding.

In faith, we understand what we can, as we can. But we get into trouble when we insist that what I understand, you must also understand. And in just the same way.

Aren't we Christians funny, sometimes? Here we have a story in which Jesus goes to great lengths to help Nicodemus think outside the box and then we take what he says and fashion from it a new box. A one-size-is-supposed-to-fit-all box.

I remember a clergy colleague confiding once that whenever she travels, she tells people she's an educator, not a pastor. I assumed she did this for the sake of airline seatmates who weren't believers. I thought she kept her role as a minister under wraps because she didn't want strangers feeling uncomfortable with her vocation while they sat shoulder to shoulder on a cross-country flight. But no, that wasn't it at all. She said what she said because she didn't want to be made uncomfortable trying to give her answer to the inevitable question, "So, are you born again?"

As we reflect together on Jesus' nighttime remarks to Nicodemus in which Jesus speaks of new birth and eternal life and his place in all of this, perhaps it would serve us well to remember that long before the Christian community was known by the name "Christian," it called itself "The Way."

The Way. The way to what, pray tell? The way to love. The way to life within this life and also beyond. The way to living with one another in community. The way to be.

We are called to be people on the way. And yet, as humans, we are far more comfortable with the known, with the familiar. We find comfort in the concrete and literal because those notions are unambiguous and containable. That need we have for the manageable tempts us to stay put rather than to move on to deeper, more nuanced relationships with ideas and with the teacher of those ideas.

Nothing about Jesus and his way, the way he calls us to, suggests that he expects us to stay put with our clean, clear answers about who we are, who he is, or what it means to follow him.

Don't believe me? Just look at Jesus' relationship with his disciples, all of whom were learning as they went who Jesus was, who they were, and what it meant to follow Jesus all the way to the cross.

Rather than insist that we produce answers born of narrow certainty, by his example Jesus seems to suggest that all along the way we are called to let go of our tight hold on what we do know so that we can embrace truth that is more expansive, nuanced, and liberating than anything we imagined. When he spoke of this life-long process, Jesus called it "losing your life to gain your life."

Jesus' way is a way, ultimately, of transformation. Especially in an age where fundamentalism is on the rise in every religion, not just Christianity, to let go of trying to nail down the truth puts us squarely in the minority and gives us the appearance of being spiritual relativists, which we are not.

The question our faith needs to be putting to us isn't so much "Have you been born again?" as it should be "Are you willing to be born again, and again, and again?"

Nicodemus was right; we can't go back into the womb. But neither should we try to draw boundary lines around our faith, turning it into a bigger, comfier womb. No womb, not the first one, not this one, not even the next one, is ever big enough for the life God wants us to live.

Amen.

© Rev. Karen Winkel
United Church of Paducah (UCC)


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